I have a habit. I am not sure exactly when I started it but if I had to guess it was sometime after I started teaching. When I am done explaining something, I will finish my statement with this question. Does this make sense?
It doesn’t just happen when I’m teaching. I have caught myself doing the same thing in conversation with a friend.
Does this make sense?
I don’t know how it started or why. But I know I do it.
One day someone remarked that they didn’t know why I said that all the time. They told me everything I said made sense.
I listened, seriously doubtful that everything I say makes sense. Because it doesn’t. Sometimes I don’t make sense to me. But what I got from that remark was that perhaps my constant question was unnecessary and I should make an effort to eliminate it from my dialogue.
I tried.
It wasn’t easy.
Then one day as I was immersed in Brene Brown’s Atlas of the Heart series on HBO, I noticed she did the same thing. Throughout each episode the woman whose books have been translated in thirty languages often posed the same question - my question - to her audience - does this make sense? And she was on a stage, being filmed and getting paid to do so!
That was when I stopped self-correcting and let my pervasive question - does this make sense - creep back into all my discussions.
When I made the decision to start a Substack and start blogging again on a consistent basis I was at a loss as to what title to use. I thought about resurrecting One Woman’s Eye or How I See It, the titles of previous blogs and newsletters. I thought about a Substack devoted to the subject of my new book, Crafting Your Pitch: A Storytelling Framework. I thought about a newsletter edition of my podcast, Marketing, Mindfulness and Martinis but nothing resonated.
And then it hit me. Does This Make Sense?
I honestly do not know if any of this will make sense. I am a modern-day generalist. That means there is never just one topic I am interested in or interested in writing about. But I am interested in writing about what I see and what is happening and changing in these crazy times we are living in when most days, nothing seems to make sense.
So here we are. When I put on my marketing hat, I realize I am breaking the rules by not focusing on one topic and one audience. But then what are the rules for if we don’t bend them occasionally and see what happens?
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